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Posted: 2021-12-01T10:45:02Z | Updated: 2021-12-01T10:45:02Z The Best Holiday Gifts For Newly Single People | HuffPost Life

The Best Holiday Gifts For Newly Single People

Jade rollers, friendship rings and wine on delivery may help mend your friend's broken heart.
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There’s no good time of year to be heartbroken, but the holidays may be the certified worst time.

Processing a breakup, separation, divorce or “conscious uncoupling” can feel extra lonely when everyone around you is kissing under the mistletoe and buying their significant other sappy and thoughtful gifts . If a loved one is going through a breakup or is gearing up for their first single holiday season, sending them a little present reminds them just how loved they are. 

Production manager Cory Lomberg recently supported a single friend through their first solo Hanukkah. Lomberg told HuffPost that helping a heartbroken pal through the holidays means giving them little treats — both edible and not. “Like nice coffee or tea, but also like a nice candle or something they can use in the bath,” Lomberg said.

Writer Lucas Olson advised erring on the side of subtle and soft. You may be tempted by an edgy “Single And Killing It” mug or provocative “Divorced And Looking” T-shirt, but your friend may not be ready to laugh it off. (Even if they’re putting on a strong face.) They also may want to not think about the breakup for a minute and would enjoy some self-care products or a staycation. “The best gift here is anything that doesn’t seem to be specifically targeted to recently single people,” Olson said.

If your loved one is feeling homesick in the wake of their breakup or if they’re wondering what they’re doing with their life, getting them a snack delivered from their favorite local restaurant or a calming journal may make them feel cared for. Additionally, sending a creative spin on gifts that stereotypically may come from a romantic partner, like matching friendship jewelry or a funky bouquet of dried flowers , can remind them that all love is love, and they are never alone. 

From more practical items to special surprises, these presents are intended to make your loved one feel cared for and to help them embrace their next chapter as a party of one. 

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A cozy set of sheets
Give their bedroom a sense of renewal by setting them up with a fresh set of cozy flannel sheets. These come in four colors and five sizes.

Get it from Target starting at $20.
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A new toothbrush
When you're used to having your partner's brush next to yours, seeing a solo brush can bring a flood of emotions. Get your loved one a new, stand-alone brush that looks great on its own.

Get it from Amazon for $26.99.
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A funny book from a local bookstore
If you can't be there in person to cheer up your friend, send them a book that will keep them in high spirits. Collections of essays and short stories are ideal for quick reads packed with laughs. Bookshop is an online retailer where you can shop online from your favorite local brick-and-mortar bookstores.

Check out the selection of humor books at Bookshop.
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A nice set of bath salts
Ah, a bath a luxurious solo activity for rest and relaxation. Rather than a perfume-y bath bomb filled with dyes and weird chemicals, get them a set of natural salts in a container they'll want to display.

Get it from Maude for $18.
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A weekend getaway (or staycation)
A change of scenery can do wonders. Get your loved one an Airbnb gift card so they can take themselves away or have a nice staycation over the holidays.

Get it from Airbnb.
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Food from their favorite far-away restaurant
You may not be able to take your friend out in their home city, but you can bring their long-distance favorites to them. Goldbelly is an online web retailer that delivers food across the country from local restaurants.

Check out the selection at Goldbelly.
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A perfume sampler
Entering a new single chapter means it's time for a new signature scent. Hook up your loved one with a sample set to help them choose their new perfume.

Get it from Henry Rose for $45.
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A face roller and gua sha set
You may not know everything in your friend's skin care routine. Instead of getting them a serum they'll never use, consider getting them a jade facial roller and gua sha set. This comes in five colors.

Get it from Amazon for $16.99.
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A fancy candle
Sometimes the best gifts are things you'd love to enjoy but wouldn't splurge on for yourself. Get your loved one a nice candle that looks as good as it smells.

Get it from P.F. Candle Co. for $15.
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A movie night basket
Perhaps a brighter side of breaking up is never having to fight over what movie to watch (or never agreeing to watch something you don't actually want to see). Give your friend a movie night basket full of all the snacks they could want and a RedBox gift card to pick out their own movie.

Get it from Amazon for $58.99.
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A vibrant vase
For color and whimsy, send your loved one a vibrant, handmade vase. If their partner was always into neutral tones, this new chapter means extra color and patterns.

Get it from SunSprinklesShop Etsy starting at $35.
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A luxurious robe
Get your friend a soft robe that can be worn over pajamas or straight out of the shower.

Get it from Parachute for $99.
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A colorful tea set
For comfort and relaxation, gift your loved one a set of teas that they can make for themselves or share with friends.

Get it from Harney & Sons for $29.95.
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A pullover featuring their hometown
There's no place like home. If you can't bring your friend to their hometown, bring a piece of their hometown to them. This comfy pullover is totally customizable with the name of someone's favorite city and state.

Get it from ShopWildBlooms on Etsy starting at $35.
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Matching friendship rings
If they've gotten used to wearing a wedding ring (or any jewelry from their ex), they may feel naked without it. Get a set of matching friendship rings so they remember how loved they are.

Get it from RadiantJewelStudio on Etsy for $17.
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A sage smudging bundle
To cleanse their space and do away with all bad vibes, snag your friend a sage bundle.

Get it from CharlieHaze on Etsy for $15.30.
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A hot cocoa set
For someone with a sweet tooth who loves wintertime, a set of hot cocoa with all the fixings is a perfect sweet treat. (Send some Baileys for an extra kick!)

Get it from Target for $9.99.
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A vibrant journal
If your friend is in a time of reflection and contemplation, gift them a brightly patterned notebook to inspire creativity and meditation.

Get it from Rifle Paper Co. for $24.
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The wine they love that their ex never liked
A partnership is about compromise. But being single is about putting yourself first. Get your friend their favorite wine (or any adult beverage) that they haven't had in a while. Drizly is an online shop for alcohol delivery in 31 states and over 1,500 cities.

Check out the selection at Drizzly.
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A new morning mug
If making and having coffee together was part of your friend's morning routine with their partner, they may be due for a refresh. Get them a new mug with a sappy message on it so they know you're thinking if them.

Get it from Target for $7.
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A bouquet of dried flowers
For florals that last the test of time, send your loved one a dried bouquet to add some color into their life.

Check out the selection at UrbanStems.
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Instagrammable baked goods
When in doubt, send chocolate. To make it a little fancier, send a box of truffles or other beautifully packaged baked goods.

Check out the selection at Milk Bar.

Before You Go

The Ultimate Holiday Gift Guide for 2021
A travel-friendly backpack(01 of53)
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The ReNew Transit backpack from Everlane is just as functional as it is sleekly designed. It's ideal for travelers, with an exterior laptop pocket, zip pockets for passports and tickets, interior slip pockets, water bottle holders and more. Best of all, it's made of recycled polyester, making it the perfect gift for an eco-conscious pal.

Get it from Everlane for $75.
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A puppy nanny cam(02 of53)
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Pet lovers all swear by the Furbo Dog camera. You can see what your little pooch is up to, talk to them and get barking alerts.

Get it from Furbo for $118.
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A sweet pair of dangly earrings(03 of53)
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Delicate and refined, Madewell's Pearl Rain statement earrings are decked out with beautiful freshwater pearls. They're reasonably priced for being so utterly beautiful and classic.

Get them at Madewell for $34.
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A bucket hat(04 of53)
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You can't go wrong with the preternaturally cool and extremely popular Finnish brand Marimekko. This cotton canvas Nurmikolle bucket hat has a top-stitched brim and detachable velcro patch.

Get it from Marimekko for $180.
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An electric kettle(05 of53)
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Electric kettles are a must-have for tea lovers. Smeg's gorgeous design adds a nice touch to any kitchen.

Get it from Williams Sonoma for $169.95.
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A beautiful ceramic stockpot(06 of53)
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Made of hard-anodized aluminum, this scratch-resistant stockpot from GreenPan is just the thing to make winning stocks, stews and more. And it has a ceramic nonstick coating that's free of PFAS, PFOA, lead and cadmium.

Get it from GreenPan for $109.99.
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A pair of festive jammies(07 of53)
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Surprise your loved one with a pair of ultra-luxe, kicky fur-trimmed pajamas. It's the kind of thing most people are reticent to drop a chunk of change on for themselves but are always thrilled to own.

Get them at Sleeper for $290.
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A statement lipstick(08 of53)
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Treat a lipstick lover to one (or more!) of Yves Saint Laurent's gorgeous and luxurious shades to Rouge Volupt Shine lipstick balms.

Get it from Sephora for $38.
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A sculptural ceramic vase(09 of53)
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These neutral-hued, minimalist decorative vases are a chic addition to any aesthetic and color palette.

Get it from AlfieAndGemDesigns at Etsy for $ 42.90 and up .
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A vivid frypan set(10 of53)
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If you're going to give someone the very practical gift of a frypan set, then it might as well be as pretty as this colorful option from GreenLife.

Get it from GreenLife for $42.99.
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A portable, multipurpose tool(11 of53)
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You don't have to be a survivalist to find yourself in need of a multitool. This Pro Master Smart and Simple multitool is a 15-in-1 gadget that includes a screwdriver, pliers, can opener and knife, among other things. Perfect for the handy adventurer in your life.

Get it from Amazon for $16.97.
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A beloved chili crisp(12 of53)
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Get on the Fly By Jing train with this absolutely delicious Sichuan chili crisp. Perfectly spicy, crunchy and savory topping.

Get it from Amazon for $17.98.
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A set of weighted bangles(13 of53)
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Fitness buffs love these understated weights. They can be used on the wrists or ankles, come in multiple colors and are subtle enough to be worn while out and about.

Get them from Amazon for $48.90-$65.
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A pretty picnic set(14 of53)
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Everything anyone could ever need for a picnic in one chic backpack: This set includes flatware, salt and pepper shakers, wine glasses, plates, napkins, a corkscrew opener, a cheese, cheese board and picnic blanket.

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
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A plant subscription(15 of53)
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The pet-loving urban gardener in your life will deeply appreciate a monthly pet-friendly plant subscription from The Sill.

Get it from The Sill for $65.
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A tabletop fire pit(16 of53)
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Warm up, toast some marshmallows or simply enjoy the view with this small and convenient fire pit.

Get it from Amazon for $64.99.
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A bucket of fancy, flaky salt(17 of53)
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This is a delightful gift for someone who loves fancy toppings of any kind. Few things are as surprising and enchanting as receiving an entire bucket of Maldon sea salt.

Get it from Amazon for $24.77.
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A soft pair of cropped leggings(18 of53)
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There's a reason Lululemon's Align leggings are a cult-fave. They're wildly soft, comfortable, and look good on absolutely everyone.

Get them at Lululemon for $88-$99.
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A scalp care set(19 of53)
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Hair care fanatics simply must try Ceremonia's Scalp Power Duo set. This Latinx- and female-owned brand is full of gorgeous products, including the Aceite de Moska scalp oil and scalp masajeador.

Get it from Revolve for $38.
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An artful and quirky cookbook(20 of53)
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This new cookbook by Julia Sherman, the creator of Salad for President , puts an artistic spin on the classic dinner party. The result is a collection of playful, delicious recipes and creative ideas for entertaining guests.

Get it from Amazon for $30.16.
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A simple and elegant chain necklace(21 of53)
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This lovely chain necklace from Gorjana looks much more expensive than it actually is. It's the perfect layering necklace and is available in both gold and silver.
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Get it from Gorjana for $65.
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A sweet desktop lamp(22 of53)
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How adorable is this Hay freestanding portable lamp? It even has a touch step dimmer.

Get it from Hay for $80.75.
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A portable phone and computer charger(23 of53)
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Never get caught with zero battery again thanks to this handy external charger from Lezchi. It can be used for phones, laptops, tablet PCs, digital cameras, game consoles and more.

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
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A customizable candle set(24 of53)
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These sweet, sculptural vegan candles make the perfect stocking stuffers or secret Santa gifts.

Get it from Etsy for $12 and up.
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A beautiful coffee table book(25 of53)
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If you know someone who was as delighted as we were to see that a Frida Kahlo piece was recently acquired for nearly $35 million , then you'll want to get them this Taschen coffee table book featuring her complete works.

Get it from Target for $172.80.
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A portable soundbar speaker(26 of53)
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This popular and highly rated computer speaker is dynamic, with a robust sound, loud volume and no distortion.

Get it from Amazon for $21.98.
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A wine advent calendar(27 of53)
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What could be more exciting than unveiling 12 bottles from this Vintage Wine Estates wine advent calendar?

Get it from QVC for $89.
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A pair of chic slides(28 of53)
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Grab these lovely Staud slides for a fashion lover from Shopbop. The juxtaposition of the soft sherpa and lug-soled heel makes for an ultra-cool look.

Get them from Shopbop from $295.
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A perfume subscription(29 of53)
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Help a fragrance lover find their new signature scent with a monthly subscription to Scentbird.

Get it from Scentbird for $15.95.
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A high-end olive oil set(30 of53)
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It doesn't get much better than Brightland's offerings. This set includes their iconic Awake olive oil, Parasol Champagne vinegar, California orange blossom honey and a handy spout.

Get it from Brightland for $88.
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A rechargeable lighter(31 of53)
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This rechargeable USB lighter is perfect for a candle-obsessed pal. No more lighter fluid, gas or open flames. It couldn't be handier.

Get it from Amazon for $11.99.
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A portable pizza oven(32 of53)
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Who in their right mind wouldn't want an authentic stone-baked pizza oven in their home or yard? It's perfect for a small space, and is powered by eco-friendly wood pellets that give your food a woody, smoky scent and flavor.

Get it from Williams Sonoma for $349.95.
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A pearl necklace(33 of53)
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This soft pink pearl and black diamond necklace from Catbird is a real showstopper. It's absolutely stunning without being over-the-top.

Get it from Catbird for $215.
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A boba tea-making kit(34 of53)
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Tea Drops' bubble tea set is perfect for the boba aficionado in your life. It includes four different tea varieties, six creamers and a pack of boba with 100 tapioca pearls.

Get it from Tea Drops for $45.
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A cozy blanket(35 of53)
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The chilly season is officially upon us, so help your pal stay cozy with this adorable blanket.

Get it from CB2 for 79.95.
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A lovely leash set(36 of53)
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Treat your furry pal to Wild One's chic Walk Kit, a set that includes a lightweight harness, leash and poop bag carrier.

Get it from Wild One for $98.
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A traditional bread proofing bowl(37 of53)
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Both novice and advanced bakers will appreciate these absolutely beautiful traditional natural cane rising molds from Food52. It'll give their bread a better rise and shape, with crunchy crusts and a lovely texture.

Get it from Food52 for $29-$44.
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An astrological tapestry(38 of53)
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Add a touch of whimsical astrological dcor to a friend's life with these customizable zodiac woven tapestries.

Get it from BearloomStudio at Etsy for $32 and up.
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A silk scrunchie set(39 of53)
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Banish creases with this set of three high-grade silk scrunchies from Slip.

Get it from Sephora for $39.
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A wine club subscription(40 of53)
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Make your wine-loving friend's day with a customizable wine club subscription at Winc.

Get it from Winc (prices vary).
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A hardworking set of sheet pans(41 of53)
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Up your loved one's baking game with these adorable sheet pans from Great Jones. The Sheet Show set includes a classic half-sheet pan and two quarter sheet pans that are available in three chic shades.

Get them from Great Jones for $85 .
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A pop culture quiz game(42 of53)
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Ditch the screens and play this fun TikTok Challenge game from Uncommon Goods.

Get it from Uncommon Goods for $15.
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A simple crochet book(43 of53)
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It doesn't get much cuter than the creations in Sarah Zimmerman's book, "Crochet Cute Critters." It features 26 beginner Amigurumi patterns for those looking to make a some animal cuties for the kiddos in their lives.

Get it from Amazon for $7.69.
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An iridescent, sweet-smelling candle(44 of53)
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This beautiful candle from Apotheke lives up to its name, Candy Store. It's subtly sweet and nostalgic without being cloying and it's a beautiful dcor piece.

Get it from J.Crew for $38.
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A travel wine cup(45 of53)
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Update your outdoor wine time with Corkcicle's stemless wine cup. It keeps drinks cold or toasty, making it a perfect for every season.

Get it from Corkcicle for $29.95.
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A multitasking water bottle(46 of53)
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Runners swear by this two-in-one Mobot Grace water bottle and foam roller.

Get it from Nordstrom for $49.99.
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A classic keyboard(47 of53)
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This portable Casio keyboard has a full-sized key set with 60 fun tones and a great stereo system. Ideal for the aspiring musician in your life and small spaces.

Get it from Amazon for $199.
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A smart meat thermometer(48 of53)
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Meater's thermometer is the first fully wireless smart meat thermometer. Your carnivorous pal will never overcook their food again!

Get it from Amazon for $66.99.
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A wooden harmonica(49 of53)
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Make sure you include earplugs for the parents when you gift this sweet little Hape harmonica to the kiddo in your life.

Get it from Amazon for $12.99.
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A cocktail-making kit(50 of53)
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Get your mixology-loving pal three cocktail kits from W&P Design so they can make an old fashioned, margarita and Moscow mule whenever the mood strikes.

Get it from W&P Design for $55.
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A stuffed friend(51 of53)
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Who can resist this oh-so-soft lovey? Catbird's Itty Bitty Bun bunny toy is perfect for the newest little one in your life.

Get it at Catbird for $22.
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A set of iridescent wine glasses(52 of53)
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Treat your loved one to a set of ethereal iridescent wine glasses. They're positively stunning.

Get them from Anthropologie for $40.
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A handmade match striker(53 of53)
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This ceramic match striker just might be the perfect stocking stuffer. It is glazed in speckled white for a neutral, yet appealing, aesthetic.

Get it from StainsbyStudio at Etsy for $39.74.
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