JERUSALEM (AP) A brother contemplated suicide. A sister stopped going to school. A father barely speaks. With each passing day, the relatives of hostages held in Gaza since Oct. 7 face a deepening despair.

Their hopes were raised that a cease-fire deal was near to bring some of their loved ones home by the start of Ramadan, the Muslim holy month that began Monday. But that informal deadline passed without any agreement.

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahus promise of total victory in the war against Hamas now rings hollow for many hostages families after five emotionally draining months.

We are reading the news every single minute. Egypt says something, the Qataris say something different, the Americans say a deal is close, Israel says its not, said Sharon Kalderon, whose brother-in-law, Ofer, remains in captivity. We try to read between the lines, but we havent heard anything about Ofer for months. Nothing that can help us breathe.

When Hamas-led militants stormed into southern Israel on Oct. 7, they killed some 1,200 people, mostly civilians, and took around 250 hostages. Since then, Israels offensive has killed more than 31,000 Palestinians, according to Gaza health officials, and driven hundreds of thousands to the brink of starvation.

About 120 hostages were freed during a November cease-fire that also led to the release of hundreds of Palestinians from Israeli prisons; three hostages were accidentally killed by Israeli forces during an attempted rescue mission. Now families are focused on bringing home the remaining hostages, at least 34 of whom are dead, according to the Israeli government.