Gavin Rossdale is getting candid about shame.

The Bush frontman, who was previously married to Gwen Stefani , opened up about their split during an appearance on Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes podcast, Amy & T.J., on Wednesday.

I never thought Id ever get divorced. So if theres a simple shame in my life, its that, Rossdale told the hosts, adding later on in the episode that the divorce was a very contentious, hugely emotional, flared-up situation.

Rossdale said that he does feel bad for my kids, as divorce can be quite debilitating for young ones.

I wish I could have found a way to not have that in their lives. It wasnt fun for me to come from a broken home, the musician shared.

I think that theres no accidents in life, so you are where youre meant to be so I dont live in regret, he explained, declaring that life just unfolds how it should, whether thats comfortable or uncomfortable.

Rossdale and Stefani were married for nearly 13 years , and share three children together: Kingston, Zuma and Apollo. When the musical couple split, it was rumored that Rossdale was allegedly having an affair with the childrens nanny. Robach and Holmes have both been publicly accused of infidelity in their previous marriages.