Ah, the so-called thrill of the chase . You know, the whole cat-and-mouse game that singles supposedly love so much ?

The whole back-and-forth are they or arent they into me? can feel exhilarating at first . But who really has the time or energy to play hard to get? Not illustrator Dami Lee , for one.

I think everyone enjoys the feeling of being pursued, but I dont think Ive ever held back on purpose to bait someone, she told HuffPost. Im not that smart or calculating and I dont have time for shenanigans! Just be nice to me.

Lee captured the absurdity of the chase in the illustration below, which was inspired by an episode of the Japanese reality show Terrace House that she watches with her boyfriend Matthew.