Kristin Cavallari is taking us back back to the beginning of her relationship with Jay Cutler , and shedding light on what exactly led to the couples divorce .

It was toxic, the Laguna Beach star said of the former couples relationship on Wednesdays episode of Call Her Daddy. Period, end of story, thats all I kind of need to say.

Cavallari said she found herself hiding things about the relationship from friends and just felt really unhappy.

I was in an unhealthy relationship and so that, to me, is not worth it, she continued. Also, I didnt want my kids thinking that that was normal. And I wanted them to see me happy and see me eventually not right now but eventually see me with someone who really respects me and treats me the way I need to be treated.

Cavallari said she didnt want to get too specific about certain details, for the sake of the couples three children: Camden, Jaxon and Saylor.